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Optimists are healthier

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Optimists are healthier, research has shown. But if you can't stop being gloomy, fake it until you make it, says a psychology professor.

The definition of an optimist: Someone, like me, who plans to get more done than time permits. Having failed to achieve the impossible, someone, like me, who is sure everything will somehow get done anyway. A more classical definition from the Mayo Clinic: "Optimism is the belief that good things will happen to you and that negative events are temporary setbacks to be overcome. "

In one study, adults shown to be pessimists based on psychological tests had higher death rates over a 30-year period than those who were shown optimistic. No doubt, the optimists were healthier because they were more inclined to take good care of themselves.

Unlike Voltaire's Candide, I've yet to be stripped of my optimism, though there are clearly forces in this country and the world that could subdue even the most ardent optimist. I am a realist, after all, and I do fret over things I may be able to do little or nothing about directly : economic injustice;wars and the repeated failure to learn from history;our gun-crazy society;the over-reliance on tests to spur academic achievement;and attempts to strip women of their reproductive rights. But I've found that life is a lot more pleasant when one looks at the bright side, seeing the glass half full and assuming that reason will eventually prevail.

Murphy's Law - "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong" - is the antithesis of optimism. In a book called Breaking Murphy's Law, Suzanne C Segerstrom, a professor of psychology at the University of Kentucky, explained that optimism is not about being positive so much as it is about being motivated and persistent.

Dr Segerstrom and other researchers have found that rather than giving up and walking away from difficult situations, optimists attack problems head-on. They plan a course of action, getting advice from others and staying focused on solutions.

Dr Segerstrom wrote that when faced with uncontrollable stressors, optimists tend to react by building "existential resources" - for example, by looking for something good to come out of the situation or using the event to grow as a person in a positive way.

I was 16 when my mother died of cancer. Rather than dwell on the terrible void her death left in my life, I managed to gain value from the experience. I learned to apply her lifelong frugality more constructively, living each day as if it could be my last, but with a focus on the future in case it wasn't.

Yes, I saved, but I also chose not to postpone for some nebulous future the things I wanted to do and could, if I tried hard, find a way to do now. And I adopted a very forthright approach to life, believing that if I wanted something badly enough, I could probably overcome the odds against me.

When I applied at age 24 for a job as a science writer at The New York Times, an interviewer said I was foolhardy to think I could be hired after just two years of newspaper experience. "If I didn't think I could do the job, I wouldn't be here, " I told him.
It turned out to be just what he wanted to hear, and I was hired. Since what I loved most was researching and writing articles that could help people better understand science and medicine, I stayed focused on my goals and declined opportunities to move up in the organisation by becoming an editor.

Research has indicated that a propensity toward optimism is strongly influenced by genes. Still, the way someone is raised undoubtedly plays a role, too. Parents who bolster children's self-esteem by avoiding criticism and praising accomplishments, however meagre, can encourage in them a lifelong can-do attitude.

With the right guidance, many of the attributes of optimism also can be learned by adults. Noting that it is easier to change behaviour than emotions, Dr Segerstrom eschews the popular saying "Don't worry, be happy. " Instead, she endorses a form of cognitive behavioural therapy: Act first and the right feelings will follow. As she puts it in her book, "Fake it until you make it. "

She also mentions, "people can learn to be more optimistic by acting as if they were more optimistic, " which means "being more engaged with and persistent in the pursuit of goals. "

If you behave more optimistically, you will be likely to keep trying instead of giving up after an initial failure. "You might succeed more than you expected, " she wrote. Even if the additional effort is not successful, it can serve as a positive learning experience, suggesting a different way to approach a similar problem the next time.


Avoid negative self-talk Regardless of the nature of your work, identify some aspect of it that is personally fulfilling. If your job is scrubbing floors, stand back and admire how shiny and clean they look Surround yourself with positive, upbeat people Focus on situations that you can control At the end of the day, write down three positive things that happened during the course of the day.

Reader's opinion (5)

S.n.karwanyun Jun 25th, 2013 at 17:26 PM

It is a wonderful article. It encourages positive thinking. It is not correct to assume that you can be optimistic and pessimistic at the same time as assumed by Mr Atul Kumar. The positive thinking has the power to overcome any problems that come in one's way. I very much like the article.

Anil KumarJun 3rd, 2012 at 21:50 PM

optimistic and pessimistic are two sides of same coin
if you will be optimistic then you will surely be pessimistic

Tejinder Singh RenuJun 3rd, 2012 at 19:17 PM

I strongly follow this belief and have always achieved targets.... great article.

Arnab PanjaJun 3rd, 2012 at 12:27 PM

very good article. Murphy's law saying - Things which can go wrong will go wrong .. this is the tip of being optimistic. Optimism actually means never to give up and be persistent. It is how hard you try and how persistent you are towards the objective that counts in the end.

Rohit PandeyJun 2nd, 2012 at 12:37 PM

Optimism is the key to a stress free life.

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